Re: [nukkad] Happy marriage

["aryaone" <>]

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10 RULES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE

1. If you got dowry for marrying her, give it back, else she
will be no more than purchased meat at so many Rs. a kilo.

2. Mother is mother and wife is wife, don't mix up the two.

3. Respect your mother and serve her, don't expect your wife
to serve her. Your mother is not her mother.

4. If you live in a joint family, get out as soon as you can.
she did not marry your whole family. 

5. She and you are equal. Just because you have the you know
what does not make you special.

6. Share the house work even if you make the money. It wont
kill you to do the dishes and clean the potty.

7. The first day your mother interferes, the same day tell her this is 
your life, and you two will run it.

8. Make sure she visits her folks regularly and freely. That's how
she lived before marriage.

9. Make certain you have kids when she agrees, and till then 
take precaution.

10. Be open about sex and love and your bodies. 

Arya.


























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