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Nukkies,
Just a thought..
Do girls get married to a person or His Country/Money??
Ashish
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BANGALORE, India, Aug 1 (AFP) - Software engineer B. Prakyath has trawled
through an exhaustive list of 110 prospective brides in the past 10
months, but the sound of wedding bells remain as distant as ever.
The 25-year-old software developer with HCL Perot Systems in India's IT
capital, Bangalore, is just one of thousands of young male software
engineer who have seen their standing in India's job-conscious marriage
market nosedive in recent months.
Considered a prime catch just one year ago, software professionals are now
strictly second division material, behind perennial stand-bys like
chartered accountants.
"It is a depressing scenario," said Prakyath, who finally approached a
marriage bureau to help him select a bride.
"For the last three or four months I have seen the majority of parents
hesitating to marry off their daughters to a software engineer as they are
not sure whether we will have our jobs next year," he said.
"But I am not giving up hope and am still continuing the search."
A global slowdown has forced technology companies in the United States and
India to lay-off staff and freeze recruitment.
Many Indian software engineers who earned 70,000 rupees (1,520 dollars) a
month in the US have returned home, futher saturating the domestic IT job
market.
"People are gradually losing their confidence in the IT sector," said T.G.
Shivraj, chief of Computer Audio-Visual Aided Matrimonial Bureau, which
has more than 500 IT professionals on its books.
"The parents of the bride are worried. They think there is no future in IT
now. So they are delaying their proposals," said Shivraj, who opened his
bureau 11 years ago and clocks an annual turnover of 10 million rupees.
"Previously the IT sector was hot, now brides are shifting to management
guys, chartered accountants and company secretaries. Indian brides look at
the status of the person, secure jobs, property and the boy's family" he
said.
J. Rajshekar, a 26-year-old software developer with a well-known car firm
in Bangalore enrolled with Shivraj's bureau five months ago and initially
got 150 matches from the firm's computer.
"My aim was to look for a graduate and good-looking girl with a decent
family background. So I pruned the list to 30 prospective brides. But I
found that none were willing because I was a software engineer," Rajshekar
said.
He said his friends who had lost their jobs were stranded with debts, and
many were not even able to pay back their car loans.
"They are out in the streets. I still have a job even though it will not
take me to the US or pays me a huge salary. But the brides and parents are
skeptical about IT now," Rajshekar said.
HCL Perot's Prakyath said the return of software engineers from overseas
had had a major impact, as one of the main incentives for marriage was the
opportunity to live abroad, especially in the United States.
"Out of 100 software engineers me and my friends knew about, 85 are back
in India, many of them with horror stories about the way they were
treated," Prakyath said.
"I think the worst impact is being felt by the fresh engineering
graduates. They have spent heavily on their education in private
engineering colleges, only to face a situation where there are no jobs.
"Now brides refusing to marry software engineers will only add to their
troubles," he said.
Ashish A. Shah
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