RE: [nukkad] MY Feelings

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Welcome aboard Trishna Mahal


>At the end of the day u r alone to suffer. No one really can suffer on 
> >your behalf, u r left alone to face life, and its problems.

You seem to be focusing only on the negative aspects of life. Isn’t life a 
mix of suffering and happiness?

>As an Indian girl when u marry , u leave everthing behind 4 that one 
> >person & his family, but u r never one with them.....U r a stranger in 
> >that house all your life and no-one cares really. No one can see your 
> >happiness, if u r happy or try to do things your way then u r made to 
> >feel guilty....U r asked to cut all your ties from the past.....is it 
> >really fair, is that why Daughters r born to their parents to leave >all 
>the beautiful relations behind....

These statements can only be considered as partially true. Just because of 
marriage no one is cutting off relations to his or her parents and siblings. 
On the contrary you become part of an extended family. Regarding your 
statement “is that why Daughters r born to their parents to leave all the 
beautiful relations behind”, take my case, my wife is my in-laws only 
daughter. I’m now far away from my parents, brothers and other relatives, 
whereas my in-laws are around. Applying your logic here it would tantamount 
to an unfair situation. But on the other hand think about it this way. My 
wife is the only daughter and hence my presence is more needed for my 
in-laws than my parents who have my other brothers around. What I’m trying 
to convey through this analogy is the fact that at times boys also need to 
leave their dear and loving ones, not girls alone. Who needs to move where 
can be best decided based on the needs and circumstances. Agreed that the 
conventional practice is the other way but with the trend moving towards 
nuclear families doesn’t both sides miss their wards when they leave their 
respective homes to have a life of their own?



Bye


Netgeek
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