Re: [nukkad] Love

["Anna Morawska" <>]

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  It is hard to believe that a man is telling the truth when you 
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 Rawat, answering my question:

 > > Why are definitions so dear to you?

 It helps in understanding what other person is
 going through. Quite often, it helps the person
 himself also understand what he/ she is going
 through as he has started feeling something but
 never deliberated what it can be.<

 OK. But still, definitions are often so limiting. In my opinion.

 > I like to interact with people. I read their body
 language and deeper meanings in their words/
 phrases/ tone etc. Then I get some idea of what
 is happening in him/ her. <

 Very rightly. Yet, you probably wouldn't be able to get it if you relied
 solely on definitions. You need the help of intuition for that.

 > Thenafter, I start querying him whether he is
 feeling this, whether he is thinking this. Of
 course, the answer is yes. And then he realises
 that I am not asking him. I already knew and I am
 telling him, just asking his confirmation. ( ... )<

 Sounds like a psychoanalyst. Which is not your profession, I guess.
 Seriously speaking, people must value you as a friend.

 > As you said, these are not exactly definitions,
 but only hints. Those are also good enough as long
 as it helps somebody in understanding oneself
 more.<

 Yes. But it's only the first step on the path that then must be followed in
 one's own individual way.

 > > Bravo! How come you knew the proper gender ending for the surname?
> >
 > You taught me. Thanks.<

 Oh, it must have been at the beginning of the linguistic debate. Have I
 mentioned my rotten memory before?

> > Experiencing the differences of our planets and trying to create some
> similarities out of them.

 > Wish you success.<

 Thanks. Bye,

 Anna.



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