Re: [nukkad] Composite Mail

["Homi Kaikobad" <>]

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 What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness? 
-Jean Jacques Rousseau, philosopher and author (1712-1778)
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Composite mail:

ref. SUICIDOPHOBIA

notice how few people have even discussed suicide, as though
we are talking naked sex on a cross street.

it is this very silence which creates and propagates the killing
instinct which brings demise upon one's self at dawn.

it is this very silence which deafens the one about to kill
himself or herself, and no one reaches out to talk.

i would have wanted a rough and tumble of opinions and
conjecture and argument and noise, which in turn would
have made sure people knew much as would help them
help someone.

Ghosts of Nuked, at least on the matter of suicide, speak!
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WHO IS CONTEMPLATING SUICIDE?

if someone on Nukkad is thinking of slitting the wrists at
midnight, do two things please?

first, don't ruin the carpet, and two, talk!
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COMMUNICATION IN SUICIDE

this is not how much you talk or to what depth. It is just
that you are ALWAYS available to the person contemplating
suicide.

people who will kill themselves sometime in june have a
diffrent way of talking in april. you have to pick on the thread
and respond. they are not thinking beyond two weeks
and you are thinking forever, so there may be glitches.

if you presume to help, do so to the hilt.

again. talking is listening, and talking is talking even when
nothing is ever going anywhere.

the last thing you do is try to have them see how valuable
life is and gee what a waste to let it go.

don't justify, don't encourage, please don't talk god, don't
give a crucifix on a chain, don't give st jude's novena and dont
say i will offer 9 paternosters.

simply stay in touch every hour one way or the other.

people kill themselves in time-windows.

plug this and no one dies.
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THE SUICIDE AGGRAVATOR FACTOR

if you are committed to helping someone, scan the horizon
for the Suicide Aggravator Factor.

this is almost always a person, a whiner, do-gooder,
torturer, weak person, proselytizer, bible toter, moralist,
sadist, blusterer, always-complainer, hyperbolic, irresponsible,
selfish robber, possible beneficiary, sister.

this can also be a situation, a marriage, divorce, broken heart,
two timer fiancé, profligate, unwanted fetus, a fear-mongering
confession giving priest, sense of guilt, having sinned, God,
ghosts, devil, husband, boy friend, torturer, sad-masochist
lover, and so many more.

add to this an impending time frame.

all these can be the Factor, which pushes the person over the
hump.

when one is communicating, one is helping checkmate
this Factor.

and the person lives.

arya.








































































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