Re: [nukkad] Composite Mail

["Anna Morawska" <>]

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Arya ref. suicide thread:

> i would have wanted a rough and tumble of opinions and
> conjecture and argument and noise, which in turn would
> have made sure people knew much as would help them
> help someone.<

Knowing is one thing. Using the knowledge in actions and making them
efficient is another.
So it is never sure you will succeed in helping, even if your knowledge is
deep and wide.

> COMMUNICATION IN SUICIDE
>
> this is not how much you talk or to what depth. It is just
> that you are ALWAYS available to the person contemplating
> suicide.<

Even if you are available the problem is whether they want to access.
In most cases they don't.
How to make them do?

> THE SUICIDE AGGRAVATOR FACTOR
>
> if you are committed to helping someone, scan the horizon
> for the Suicide Aggravator Factor.
>
> this is almost always a person, a whiner, do-gooder,
( ... )
> ghosts, devil, husband, boy friend, torturer, sad-masochist
> lover, and so many more.
>
> add to this an impending time frame.<

Shortly speaking:  life. When life begins to ache, like an injured limb or
head, it becomes the Suicide Aggravator Factor.
And like in healing injuries the medicine [here: communication] may or may
not work.
It depends on the degree of the injured one's determination.

I once tried to treat my friend this way and I failed [have spoken of it a
few days back].
Even though, I still think communication is the remedy of biggest
potentiality of all.


Anna.






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