[nukkad] Inspiration Moment =Everybody Can Do Something....

[KOMAL JAIN <komaljain@inf.com>]

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Inspiration Moment 

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Everybody Can Do Something....

Roger Crawford had everything he needed to play tennis - except two hands
and a leg.

When Roger's parents saw their son for the first time, they saw a baby with
a thumb-like projection extended directly out of his right forearm and a
thumb and one finger stuck out of his left forearm. He had no palms. The
baby's arms and legs were shortened, and he had only three toes on his
shrunken right foot and a withered left leg, which would later be amputated.

The doctor said Roger suffered from ectrodactylism, a rare birth defect
affecting only one out of 90,000 children born in the United States. The
doctor said Roger would probably never walk or care for himself.

Fortunately Roger's parents didn't believe the doctor.

"My parents always taught me that I was only as handicapped as I wanted to
be," said Roger. 

"They never allowed me to feel sorry for myself or take advantage of people
because of my handicap. Once I got into trouble because my school papers
were continually late," explained Roger who had to hold his pencil with both
"hands" to write slowly. "I asked Dad to write a note to my teachers, asking
for a two-day extension on my assignments. Instead Dad made me start writing
my paper two days early!"

Roger's father always encouraged him to get involved in sports, teaching
Roger to catch and throw a volleyball, and play backyard football after
school. At age 12, Roger managed to win a spot on the school football team.

Before every game, Roger would visualize his dream of scoring a touchdown.
Then one day he got his chance. The ball landed in his arms and off he ran
as fast as he could on his artificial leg toward the goal line, his coach
and teammates cheering wildly. But at the ten-yard line, a guy from the
other team caught up with Roger, grabbing his left ankle. Roger tried to
pull his artificial leg free, but instead it ended up being pulled off.

"I was still standing up," recalls Roger. "I didn't know what else to do so
I started hopping towards the goal line. The referee ran over and threw his
hands into the air. Touchdown! You know, even better than the six points was
the look on the face of the other kid who was holding my artificial leg."

Roger's love of sports grew and so did his self-confidence. But not every
obstacle gave way to Roger's determination. Eating in the lunchroom with the
other kids watching him fumble with his food proved very painful to Roger,
as did his repeated failure in typing class. "I learned a very good lesson
from typing class," said Roger. "You can't do everything - it's better to
concentrate on what you can do."

One thing Roger could do was swing a tennis racket. Unfortunately, when he
swung it hard, his weak grip usually launched it into space. By luck, Roger
stumbled upon an odd-looking tennis racket in a sports shop and accidentally
wedged his finger between its double-barred handle when he picked it up. The
snug fit made it possible for Roger to swing, serve and volley like an
able-bodied player. He practiced every day and was soon playing - and losing
- matches.
But Roger persisted. He practiced and practiced and played and played.
Surgery on the two fingers of his left hand enabled Roger to grip his
special racket better, greatly improving his game. Although he had no role
models to guide him, Roger became obsessed with tennis and in time he
started to win.

Roger went on to play college tennis, finishing his tennis career with 22
wins and 11 losses. He later became the first physically handicapped tennis
player to be certified as a teaching professional by the United States
Professional Tennis Association. 

Roger now tours the country, speaking to groups about what it takes to be a
winner, no matter who you are.

"The only difference between you and me is that you can see my handicap, but
I can't see yours. We all have them. When people ask me how I've been able
to overcome my physical handicaps, I tell them that I haven't overcome
anything. I've simply learned what I can't do - such as play the piano or
eat with chopsticks - but more importantly, I've learned what I can do. Then
I do what I can with all my heart and soul."

By Jack Canfield
from Chicken Soup for the Soul

Submitted by Subramanian KRV

Thanks KRV   for sharing this thought provoking  story with us .


 "We are what we think All that we are arises
With our thoughts.
With our thoughts,We make our World"
	
- The Buddha


Celebrate Life .....Great Day.... 

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