[nukkad] in response to raj's mail..

[Satya <>]

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Everyone is born right-handed. Only the greatest overcome it.
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Kind of upbringing : both the parents are responsible
for that thus mother too...nothing is stopping a
female when she gets into parental role to give the
right kind of upbringing to her wards esp. daughters
of which she was devoid of by her own parents when she
was a child.Would she do her bit now when she is
capable of playing a major role in shaping her
daughters' lives? Where does she fail then?Who is
forcing her now?

orthodox upbringing : Difficult to say what Raj has
meant by "orthodox upbringing"...

Moreover,not every thing is wrong about orthodox
upbringing.It makes the children to learn values,helps
them understand the culture in a better way,saves them
from a lot of troubles which could be happening to
modern children or teenagers or youths when they and
their parents embrace modern outlook without
understanding the its negative implications (their
reasoning capabilities go for a toss when they fail to
identify and differentiate between good and part of
this catch as catch can world - they make their lives
miserable and others'  lives too),etc...

No one can make others blind for whatsoever reasons.A
lot depends upon your own gumption,attitude and what
you really decide to take from the external
environment after doing endless reasonings within
yourself.It really happens this way only.No one can
force my mind to stop thinking or deter my spirit from
soaring to the heights it want to.Atleast not after a
certain stage of life.



Ya ,its the pain which matters but in what? Here the
example which Raj has cited brings out the care and
love  for loved ones...Here your feelings are not
directed towards self..you are feeling for
others...not realy brooding and lamenting over lost
love...a feeling which is mainly meant for self
sympathy only..its the worst emotion..

For people about whom I care and whom I love ,I would
stand for them with all what I have and it would be
more than enough to tide over whatever problems are
there. But for lost love :I would cherish the memory
of those days forever but wont get bugged with "deo
das" syndrome.

Everyone loves him (her)self to the best of his or her
understanding  but the world is not getting any better
because of this fact.

Most of the People really dont want love (I am talking
about love between opposite sexes where a possibilty
of turning the relationship into life partnership
exists)...they would do calculations.. mental
calculations and try to find out the optimum point of
comfort,care,love,necessities of life as per their
understanding-both materislatic and spiritual
necessities,money,positions and whole lot of other
things..love is not the single driver of decison
making process and not most important one either...its
a decision of trade off..nothing else..

If you ever lose (God Forbid) your love instead of
crying over it just bear the loss like a man
should-gracefully,understandingly and absorb it within
yourself without even breathing a word about it...and
keep on moving with life making justice with
yourself,God's expecatations and the world...do away
with your lamenting feelings and save your tears..You
would feel like Himalaya...couple it with an epmathy
towards world and try to make some difference to the
world...If you are able to do it - You have won the
game of life....

..Satya 



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