RE: [nukkad] in response to raj's mail..

["Husain K Jagmag" <>]

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If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything. - Mark Twain
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On Tue, 14 Jan 2003 Satya wrote :
If you ever lose (God Forbid) your love instead of
crying over it just bear the loss like a man

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I am very curious to know what "bear the loss like a man" 
means...
As far as i know..every individual has different ways 
of dealing with loss..be it loved ones... something precious... or 
so on.....
There are no common ways, fixed methods, streamlined processes.. in 
which "MAN" or for that matter, "Women" deal with such situations... 

"Bear the loss like a man" is just one of those so called societal norms/prejudices 
which emotionally strait-jackets men...under the pretence that men 
are REAL MEN only if they do not display their emotions.. wear the mask.. 

- Husain.







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