Re: RE: [nukkad] in response to raj's mail..

["Mahesh chandra gupta" <>]

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On Tue, 14 Jan 2003 Husain K Jagmag wrote :

I am very curious to know what "bear the loss like a man"
means...


"Bear the loss like a man" is just one of those so called societal 
norms/prejudices which emotionally strait-jackets men...under the 
pretence that men are REAL MEN only if they do not display their 
emotions.. wear the mask..

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"bear the loss like a man"
means...


ham to tujh se,tera hi gam,
Barson rahe chhipaye;
Dil hi dil mein roye lekin,
Bahar se muskaye.


Women, on the other hand, are more down to earth. When they feel 
like crying, they cry. When tey feel like laughing, they laugh. 
when they feel like complaining, they complain. [It is a different 
matter that they feel like doing so rather too often!]

Because women share their feelings with others they are better 
able to cope with stress than men. [this is scientific research 
finding]. That is why women live longer than men, globlly 
speaking. India is an exception because of unequal treatment to 
women. But, even here, life span is same for men and women.

Conclusion: Women cope with stress better than men. It is men who 
have to change, not women.But men will not change to adopt so 
called womanly ways. The eternal conundrum! Because if they do, 
women will not value the company of a man without "manly 
qualities".

We got to move in crcles. That is why the god made earth as 
round!!.

MC Gupta

MC Gupta




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