[nukkad] language in love

["aryaone" <>]

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WHO MEANS WHAT IN LOVE

[What follows is not definitive but a norm. It tries to represent 
what men mean when they say they are in love.

Also if men understood what women mean when they say 
certain things, there would be less dhamal.]

WHEN A MAN SAYS ...

When a man says I love you he rarely means marriage.

When a man says I want to be close to you he factors 
in sex.

When a man says I want to be your friend he rarely means 
friendship as between men.

When a man has sex he rarely means to marry the woman,
whatever he says.

When a man has had sex with a woman shortly after meeting, 
he by and large thinks the woman is easy.

When a man has sex and the woman becomes pregnant 
by half he will not think this is his child.

When a man has sex and the woman becomes pregnant 
and he is forced to marry he will always harbor a grudge.
If such a condition leads to marriage, the reservations
must be worked out before marriage between the two, 
openly, tacitly.

For a man the chase is exhilarating, when he waxes 
romantic poetic and extravagant. There is little he
will not promise and perform.

WHEN A WOMAN SAYS ...

When a woman says I love you she rarely means an affair 
which will not lead to marriage.

When a woman says I want to be close to you she hardly 
factors in sex.

When woman says I want to be your friend she rarely 
means friends as between women.

When a woman has sex she ALWAYS means to marry 
the man whatever she says.

When a woman has had sex with a man shortly after meeting, 
she rarely thinks the man is easy, or that he thinks she is.

When a woman has sex and she becomes pregnant 
she presumes he will know he is the father.

When a woman has sex and she becomes pregnant 
and there is marriage she rarely think there is
cause for grudges.

For a woman the chase is exhilarating, when she feels
her man waxing romantic poetic and extravagant. 
There is little she will not expect AS promise and 
performance.

more later ...

Arya..



















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