Re: [nukkad] Can't girls sense emotions?

["HOMI KAIKOBAD" <>]

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There are as many answers as there are likely to be women on a busy street
in Paris. Here is one take. If I survive the reaction I'll offer another:

Women are predatory, there are no two ways about this. Biologically, they
are structured to invite six million halves of the man up a river of no
return only to have one tailed blind tadpole have his brains knocked out at
the gates of Ovum and unceremoniously swallowed up. The rest are eaten up as
good protein or flushed down the tube. The swallowed up specimen has his
genes unscrambled and re-patterned as she wants, and with arbitrary decision
she creates a male or a female replica, which she hangs breathless upside
down and feeds with her blood and bones and nurtures post partum with her
milk and after due programming sets him loose in an unpredictable world
where a million more like her await him, and the cycle begins again.

Morbid. Agreed. But very near the truth. Take this gene set to social levels
and we have the same internal design now packed with differently. The
unrelenting underpinning is predator, the overlying fluff can be variously
sensitive, loving, caring et al.

Now the male beast. So what does he bring to the coffee table where some
serious wooing is in order? At best a terrible mix of superiority and
mom-said-so and second hand Byron and third hand Elizabeth Barrette B with
some wine-and-song by Khayyam. By and large he wants to kiss her and sing
poetry at her feet. She wants to marry him, which is to say hold him in
bondage to provide and nurture and insure himself twice over and have a
cardiac at 55 so she can travel to the Bahamas and rekindle romance which
died at betrothal.

There are no guys with deeper feelings! Just men who want more than they can
give coupled with a terrible sense of what a precious gift of God they are
to the manifestation. Men, in short, are unrealistic and immaturely so. And
they pay the price.

What most men miss is this. Women want to talk and laugh and make jokes and
slap you on the back just like your male friends and have you read nothing
more than camaraderie with a dash of ribaldery in it. With one qualifier,
that they be free to read whatever they like into it. Why? Don't ask, it's
just the way the genes are. The Xtra X. Right? Right.

Be sure of this. When she says, "But I thought we were just friends. What
made you think there was something more?", she exactly knows what she
implied and lied about.

Giggle? Bubbbly self? Like they are idiots? These are at best tools of the
trade, or at worst the man's need to read her as all shape and nothing in
the shop.

Know this, men, especially Mamma's Boys. The dullest woman will outsmart the
smartest man if he in  any way thinks himself better than her, or she dumber
than him.

Is it in-built genetics? Yeah, you got that right.

Or is it our social structure where guys mis-interpret any overt sign of
friendship by a girl? That too.

Arya.



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