RE: Arranged MArriages - Pros & Cons

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Hi,

I feel we are drifting from the point that Aditi is trying to make. If I am
not mistaken Aditi is trying to say "Can a couple of meetings before
marriage be good enough for a person to determine whether the other person
is good enough to spend the entire life with ".  Well Aditi thats a matter
of perception and maturity. I agree on the point that love marriages are
good, but again it has its pros and cons, and no one can reach the end of
this.

About comparing the person with a vegetable I feel its not a sensible
example.

cheers

Amit Wadhwa
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> thats exactly the point u r not buying a vegetable.
> so for vegetable u can judge every aspect. u can see the size shape price 
> and u can negotiate but for person u can't do that.
> either u have to accept him or say no to him. (without negotiation)
> is't that right ?
> neeraj
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> >From: "Aditi Shah" <adi60@hotmail.com>
> >To: malhotra_raju@yahoo.com
> >CC: nukkad-list@mumbai-central.com
> >Subject: Re: Arranged MArriages - Pros & Cons
> >Date: Fri, 15 Sep 2000 12:45:06 -0400 (EDT)
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> >One of the biggest question that I think people face with an arranged
> >marriage is how just in a few meetings will u know that this is the
> person 
> >u
> >want to spend the rest of your life with. I mean you arent shopping for
> >vegetables, a rotten one can be thrown out. this is your life we are 
> >talking
> >about.
> >I mean dont get me wrong, I am not saying that arranged marriages are a
> bad
> >idea or that they dont work, I am just voicing a question a lot of people
> >probably ponder over.
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