Re: Arranged MArriages - Pros & Cons

["Pranav Patil" <>]

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well; whatever you guys might want to say... but this indian so called 
culture and society is always FOR arranged marriages. I agree that 
inarranged marriages you just gamble on other person; if it works fine else 
you don't know what to do? right????
Then why there is a higher ratio of devorces in case of love marriages???
we should think over that too. I think before marriages we only show our 
good part or always try to be good to our counterpart... But when you 
actually start sharing a home or room or eventually everything you have then 
you come to know real facts...
my choice always goes to live-in relationship; if someone is against 
arranged marriages...
You can't even compare a human being with vegetables...


>From: "NEERAJ SINGHAL" <neeraj7@hotmail.com>
>To: adi60@hotmail.com, malhotra_raju@yahoo.com
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>Subject: Re: Arranged MArriages - Pros & Cons
>Date: Sat, 7 Oct 2000 14:46:00 -0400 (EDT)
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>thats exactly the point u r not buying a vegetable.
>so for vegetable u can judge every aspect. u can see the size shape price
>and u can negotiate but for person u can't do that.
>either u have to accept him or say no to him. (without negotiation)
>is't that right ?
>neeraj
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>>From: "Aditi Shah" <adi60@hotmail.com>
>>To: malhotra_raju@yahoo.com
>>CC: nukkad-list@mumbai-central.com
>>Subject: Re: Arranged MArriages - Pros & Cons
>>Date: Fri, 15 Sep 2000 12:45:06 -0400 (EDT)
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>>One of the biggest question that I think people face with an arranged
>>marriage is how just in a few meetings will u know that this is the person
>>u
>>want to spend the rest of your life with. I mean you arent shopping for
>>vegetables, a rotten one can be thrown out. this is your life we are
>>talking
>>about.
>>I mean dont get me wrong, I am not saying that arranged marriages are a 
>>bad
>>idea or that they dont work, I am just voicing a question a lot of people
>>probably ponder over.
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