Re: Arranged MArriages - Pros & Cons

[Vinay S <>]

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What I Would disagree with certain points amde by
Pranav.
Pranav has pointed out that in Love marriage there are
more divorces than arranged marriage. I do agree that
the number of divorces are more but there is a certain
reason behind it . In case of love marriage since the
couple have defied their parents as well as the
society earlier they can immune to any remarks made by
the society so taking a divorce becomes easy for them.
This is not true with arranged marriage as here
youngsters are afraid of the society. they continue to
live with their spouse even if they don't like him or
her. Similarly they don't take divorce as it is
considered a shameful ast in the indian society.
This is the reason why more love marriages breaks more
than arange marriages. 
Furher in cas of an arrange marriage the marriage is
not only between two person but it is the marriage of
the family.Thus in case of any conflict the pressure
is from both the parents as not to take divorce.
But in case of love love marriage since they are
against the society and family no one tries to expain
them the consequences of divorce.
 
Hope pranav would agree to this point,

Vinay


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